The Idea of Detachment
“TOO MUCH ATTACHMENT TOO MUCH HURT” People believe too much attachment hurts, they want to distance people themselves from a relationship that creates the feeling of hurt. “Little attachment leads to little hurt, and no attachment causes no hurt “. The notion of being attached in our minds is to behave and do as the one we love does. This idea of attachment in such a way creates feelings of hurt. For example, we see two siblings born attached, they sit together, walk together, stand together, get ready together, everything they do all together, wouldn’t life be great for them? But then, they are separated; which one do you now think is more comfortable? if one sits other than stand, the other walks one can run, because they’re detached. Talking about Emotional attachment, this means my mind is connected to their mind, if one gets upset, the other person gets upset naturally. Even if the other doesn’t get upset, it is believed that he/she is” indifferent to our feelings